Again, stop pretending that these personal choices ('drugs') preclude the abilit
I don't do any drugs and I have never done any drugs.
In my case, marijuana is not illegal (in California) - ate a brownie, had not yet started working when the sex started! :)
it was a long time ago, didn't do drugs, don't remember the alcohol amount or wh
This is the same person that I was talking about in the last section, the last h
This was not a hookup, and no drugs were used

We wanted to break up about the same time
My partner wanted to break up somewhat more

I initiated a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relationship
S/he initiated a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relationship
I heard him/her referring to me as "boyfriend" or "girlfriend"
Other

A friend initiated a talk that made us decide we were exclusive
A friend of mine asked my partner if we were a couple. He didn't know how to ans
A hookup turned into a romantic relationship making us a couple for 3 years
After the first kiss. It is in the Albanian culture that after you kiss are toge
after we started spending more time together it just became offical i didnt thin
and I said "no" we are not. YOu have not asked me yet.
asked me out one night to make it exclusive
Asked me to be his girlfriend right away
Asked other person through a note if they wanted to "Go out." Non-exclusive rela
at first it was plain, just like bf/gf relationship. But after all the hardships
Became apparent for both of us shortly after (without needing to talk). About a
Because of the situation, we have never used the word boy/girlfriend, but have b
Both have come to the idea of relationship at the same time
both initiated a talk and said well we have been together for a while
But we pretty much knew before that anyway.
Changed our "facebook" status to: "In a relationship" with "Me/Him"
don't recall, we've been married for 3.5 years, together for 7 years
first kiss entailed a discussion of the next,and our relationship to follow... w
For his birthday I gave him a heart key that meant I finally accepted his wooing
Friends and family just told us we are so we should be...
Friends first, so if we were going to cross a line we knew it would be boyfriend
had sex,  talked about it, kinda just happen
He "asked me out" which meant exclusive relationship in high school
He and I had a talk about what it was we wanted/expect in a relationship before
he asked if he can call me his girlfriend
he asked if this meant I was his girlfriend now
he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend
He asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. we followed my answer with a discu
He asked me if I wanted to take it to the next level, which is become boyfriend/girlfriend.
He asked me if I will date him, and I sad yes
he asked me if I would be his girlfriend
He asked me many many times. I did not feel emotionally ready. We were even shar
he asked me to be his girlfriend and i accepted
He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes
He asked me to be his girlfriend, and I agreed
He asked me to be in a relationship on facebook
he asked me to go out with him and be in a relationship
he asked me what I was looking for and I didn't really want a boyfriend at the t
He asked my parents' permission and proceeded to ask me to become exclusive.
He asked: "Do you wan to be my girlfiriend?"
he brought me three single roses to my house and they all stood for something he
He confessed his feelings and asked me to be a girlfriend.
He formally asked me to be his girlfriend.
He got down on one knee and asked me to be his girlfriend in front of all his fr
he had asked me before and really wanted to be in a relationship but i was just
He had initiated many talks about becoming exclusive, but I initiated the talk w
He had to choose between me and his ex-girlfriend who wanted him back.  He chose
He just asked me to be his girlfriend and I liked him, so then it  was official.
he just told me that he wasn't going to see anyone else while we were together
He kept asking me to be his girlfriend and I finally decided to give it a shot.
He kissed me, we talked, and I sort of knew, but I also asked to make sure.
He made it clear that he did not want to hook up with me, he wanted a relationsh
he said "i love you" i said "i love you" then next day was asked "are you my gii
He said I love you when we were having sex
He said something about his "girlfriend" and I asked if he was refering to me. H
He said that he likes me and wants to be a boyfriend.
he said to forget about my last break up and to remember him.
He suprised me with a scavenger hut then asked me out at the end.
he talked to my dad and then asked me to be his girlfriend
He told me he considered me his girlfriend
He told me he had a conversation with our friend about asking me "out"
He told me if i wanted to be his girlfriend
he was commitment phobic so we claimed it wasn't exclusive even though it was
he was extremly unhappy that i had "cheated on him" (we were not exclusive!) so after a huge argument he decided he wanted to be my boyfriend.
He wrote me a poem asking me to be his girlfriend
his friends referring to me as his girlfriend
HOOKED UP, BABY, MOVED IN BEEN TOGETHER FOR 7 YEARS NOW
I agreed to go out with her after weeks of denying due to fear of first relation
I always refused the term "girlfriend", but we were decided to be exclusive beca
I asked for the talk, she rejected, I asked for the talk, she rejected, she aske
I asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend
I ASKED HER OUT AT CANDELAS ON THE BAY IN CORONADO, CA WHERE WE AGREED TO BE WITH EACH OTHER FOR THE REST OF OUR BEAUTIFUL LIVES
I asked him if he was going to see anyone else.
i asked his coworker to tell him that his girlfiend was here. we felt it but had
I asked if he was going to ask me out or not.  He asked me out.
I asked so are we boyfriend/girlfriend now and he said I thought we already were
i asked when we going to be bf gf and he said when i first kissed u
I brought it up and three months later he agreed
i can't remeber clearly because it was long ago. i believe we both discussed it
I can't remember who initiated this discussion, but it must have happened.
I decided he was my boyfriend, but he did not consider me to be his girlfriend f
I finally said yes to him, when he asked me out for the fourth time.
I got tired of saying we were just "cohorts"; I realized it was finally time to
I had to get it out of him to tell me how he felt about me.
i iniated holding his hand then he asked me out.
I iniated the talk but then she changed the subject. A few days later she iniate
I initiated a talk, but I didnt know thats what we had decided on until i heard
I just knew i wanted to be with only her
I kept mentioning how I don't like that we're not official because he was my fir
I knew. And hearing him say it was only a confirmation.
I realized I didn't want to date anyone else
I refered to him as my boyfriend to my friend and he overheard and we had a talk
I referred to her as my girlfriend in public.
I referred to him as my "boyfriend" in front of him
I referred to him as my boyfriend. He agreed,still does.
I said I was only seeing him and not other men
I sort of knew but I asked if I can change my relationship status on Facebook an
I sort of knew, and then he started calling me his girlfriend, and I then starte
I stopped having sexual encounters with my ex and decided to be exclusive with t
i told him i would leave my boyfriend at the time for him
i told him that we would be a couple when he gave me my first kiss
I told him to ask me out officially after we met for the first time. From then on it was official but we were in love a few weeks before that.
i was referred to as her boyfriend by a mutual friend
If there is a minute when you doubt exclusivity or doubt that it is meant to be
In Mexico you have to ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend
It evolved over time, after varying levels of thorough research.
It just came up and we decided mutually to make i exclusive.
It just grew into an exclusive relationship somehow.
it just happened, a mutual understanding
it was a long distance development of a relationship over the phone so it was im
It was basically like we were but she wanted me to ask, so i just flat out asked
It was sometimes exclusive and sometimes not, but we decided we were in a relati
It was the first time we ever kissed and after he referred to me as his girlfrie
It was understood between us both that we were official
Me:  "What do you say we get together and call ourselves an institute?"
met parents and heard him referring to me as his girl. Later asked him if I was
Mutually admitted that our friendship had become more
my girlfriend initiated the talk between us
my mother asked and we agreed that we were exclusive
neither of us really call it "boyfriend/girlfriend," we just kind of know what i
Never was technically the significant other
not sure, the bitch was as indecisive and passive aggressive as can be
now when we talk about it we say "when we were boyfriend/girlfriend"
One night he said, "So I told my mom we are dating today" and I said, "Oh...alri
one of us iniated the conversation but i am unsure of which one
our friend cornered him and asked him what our deal was
our friends kept asking us if we were together, so we just decided then and ther
Over many conversations initiated by both
parents referred to me as girlfriend and he did not disagree or correct them
She questioned me in the middle of intercourse.
she thought we were but really we werent
She threatened to stop messing with me and that was not what I wanted and I real
since we were in high school we just became boyfriend/girlfriend there was no re
slept together every night for like a month
Someone asked, she said yes, and it was so.
something changed between us and we talked about it to make sure we were on the
still not exclusive, long term, long distance- we figured it out...
The exclusivity talk just came up.  Very quickly, in fact.  We both sort of brou
They heard me referring to them as "boyfriend" and said they didn't mind me call
We are in an exclusive relationship, but avoid referring to one another as "boyf
we are not in an exclusive relationship. we are in an open relationship.
We assumed it was exclusive. Because we are the type of people who prefer to be with one person at a time.
we both agreed on the terms of the relationship
We both agreed that we wanted to be in an exclusive relationship
We both came to the conclusion in a conversation after intense physical contact
We both decided to talk about our relationship
We both fell in love.. it was a mutual feeling.
We both had a talk where we both wanted to be in a relationship together
We both iniated a talk where we decided it was an exclusive relationship
We both initiated a talk and decided on an exlusive relationship
We both initiated a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relationsh
We both initiated in a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relatio
We BOTH initiated the talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relation
We both initiated the talk the first time we kissed
We both initiated the talk, it was mutual.
We both kinda knew, but I did still talk with her about it to make sure we were
We both knew and he asked me to be his "girlfriend"
We both made it clear to eachother after I had spent the night sleeping on the f
We both respectivley talked about it and decided it was what we wanted
We both sort of initiated a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive re
we both sort of knew and begain talking about it which ended in our agreement to
We both started referring to each other as "boyfriend" and "girlfriend"
we both talked and decided we were a couple
We changed our Facebook relationship statuses.
We decided that we want to be with eachother. We got angaged and now we're marri
We decided together that it was an exclusive relationship
we decided we both felt the same way about each other
We discussed how we were both in love with each other.
We discussed our relationship and the labeling of it
We don't like titles but we talked decided to be exclusive.
We fell in love so he moved here from Australia.
We finished hooking up, and she asked me if I wanted to date her
we first kept in on the down low, and then eventually just started referring to
We fooled around a little, and later that day mutually decided that we were in a
we got into an arguement because i was still seeing other people, and he assumed
We had a conversation after hooking up in which we decided to start dating--we d
We had a long power struggle before he decided he was comfortable declaring me a
We had been going on proto-dates for a while previous, and when we decided we we
We had been in a relationship previously that had ended and we were getting back
We had dated exclusively for months but did not call it going out until he "init
We had several exchanges discussing our respective feelings
We had talked about wanting to be together before, but she was in another relati
we had the talk and decided not to be exclusive
We hooked up and afterwards knew we were in a relationship
we hooked up for awhile until we both decided we were ready for an exclusive rel
We initiated a talk in which we decided that it was an exclusive relationship
we initiated a talk regarding an exclusive relationship
we initiated talks in which we decided to be together in a non-exclusive relatio
we just decided together at the same time
We just kind of knew and then had a talk about it
we kissed and then we both made it official
We kissed, talked about what happened, and then i asked her out.
We mutually agreed that we wanted to declare a relationship.
We sort of knew, but someone asked if we were, and we both said yes.
we stopped seeing others after hooking up
we talked about it but I am unsure who first intiated the conversation
we talked about it. Also it was a non-exclusive, open relationship. Your questio
we talked about our "relationship" but never directly specified that we were exl
We talked all during our dating and hooking up about what the "rules" were and h
We talked to each other about it on a daily basis. We really wanted to be an exc
we were always close so we though it would be right
we were always together, so it just became known socially that we were together
we were decitful for somtime so i think maybe a 6mo to a yr after we meet!
we were exclusive almost from the begining and we eventually talked about it to
we were exclusive from day one and then become a couple later in a romantic gesture
We were never "Exclusive", but we were supposed to not be able to date other peo
We were not boyfriend/girlfriend. These questions leave out other possibilities of not being a legitimate couple of bf/gf relationship type. What is considered romantic by me is different than what is offered on this survey.
We were not in an exclusive relationship.
we were on the same page from the get-go abt physical intimacy meaning exclusivi
we werent officially going out, just together for a long time
went to a winter ball and everyone was asking if thats "him"
When I realized a kiss meant more to him than I thought and we became a couple.
When we started dating I already had a boyfriend. He(my current boyfriend)asked
When you have an argument regarding somewhat else
which was confirmed by a talk that I initiated
While living in Califorina, I bought plane tickets to come visit him in Chicago.